Biography: "Dr.
Bob's Nightmare"
Robert H. S., M.D., of Akron,
Ohio.
(OM, p. 183 in 1st
edition, p. 171 in 2nd,3rd and 4th editions.
In the OM and 1st edition, it was titled "The
Doctor's Nightmare.")
Pioneers of A.A.
Dr. Bob and the twelve men and women
whose stories are in this section were among the
early members of A.A.'s first groups. The third
edition introduces this section by saying that they
all had passed away of natural causes, having
maintained complete sobriety. But it is known that
Marty M. and Clarence S. were both still living when
the third edition was published, and Marty had a
later slip of which perhaps the editors of the third
edition were unaware.
"A
co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous. The birth of our
Society dates from his first day of permanent sobriety,
June 10, 1935. To 1950, the year of his death, he
carried the A.A. message to more than 5,000 alcoholic
men and women, and to all these he gave his medical
services without thought of charge. In this prodigy of
service, he was well assisted by Sister Ignatia at St.
Thomas Hospital in Akron, Ohio, one of the greatest
friends our Fellowship will ever know."
Dr.
Bob met Bill W. and stopped drinking on Mother's Day,
May 12, 1935, but about three weeks later he drank again
while on a trip to attend a medical convention. His last
drink was June 10, 1935, (or perhaps June 17, 1935,
according to some sources).
His
son, "Smitty," described him as a very sensitive man,
who loved being a doctor, and as "a man's man," who was
also very courteous, especially to women. "Women felt
comfortable around him, because he so obviously loved my
mom." Smitty also describes him as having a great sense
of humor.
He was
born on August 8, 1879, St. Johnsbury, Vermont, about
one hundred miles northeast of East Dorset, where Bill
W. was born. He was the only child, of Judge and Mrs.
Walter P. S., who were influential in business and civic
affairs. He had a much older foster sister, Amanda
Northrup, of whom he was quite fond.
His
parents were pillars of the North Congregational Church
in St. Johnsbury. They insisted Bob go to church not
only on Sunday, several times during the week. He later
rebelled against this and decided he wasn't going into a
church again except for funerals or weddings. And he
didn't -- for about forty years. But the religious
education stood him in good stead in future years.
Smitty said his father was one of the few people he knew
who had read the Bible from cover to cover three times.
He
entered St. Johnsbury Academy at fifteen. At a dance
during his senior year he met Anne Ripley of Oak Park,
Illinois, a student at Wellesley on holiday with a
friend. It was not a whirlwind marriage. They weren't
married until seventeen years later. He first had to
finish his education, and later she may have been
reluctant to marry him because of his drinking.
Except
for a secret taste of hard cider when he was about nine,
he didn't drink until he was about nineteen and
attending Dartmouth College in New Hampshire, described
as "the drinkingest" of the Ivy League schools.
A
tattoo he wore the rest of his life was probably from
those days at Dartmouth: a dragon and a compass tattoo.
The dragon wound around his left arm from the shoulder
to the wrist. It was blue with red fire. His son thinks
"he had to have been drunk to have it put there, and you
didn't do something that complicated in a day. When I
asked him how he got it, he said, 'Boy, that was a
dandy!' And it must have been, too."
He
wanted to be a doctor, but for some reason his mother
opposed it, so he spent the next three years in Boston,
Chicago, and Montreal working. Finally he began studying
medicine, first at the University of Michigan, and then
at Rush University near Chicago. His drinking interfered
with his medical education repeatedly, but he eventually
received his medical degree, and secured a coveted
internship at City Hospital in Akron. After his two
years internship he opened an office.
Soon
his alcoholism progressed and he was hospitalized
repeatedly. His father sent a doctor to Akron to take
him back to Vermont where he stayed for a few months,
then he returned to his practice, sufficiently
frightened that he did not drink again for some time.
During this sober period he married Anne.
During
Prohibition he thought it would be safe to try a little
drinking, since it would not be possible, so he thought,
to get large quantities. But it was easy for doctors to
obtain alcohol. He also used sedatives to hide his
"jitters." Things went from bad to worse.
In the
late 1920s, he decided that he wanted to be a surgeon,
perhaps because he would be able to control his schedule
more easily in this specialty than he could as a general
practitioner. The patients wouldn't be calling him for
help all hours of the day or night, so they wouldn't
catch him when he was drinking.
He
went to Rochester, Minnesota, and studied under the Mayo
brothers. He became a rectal surgeon, and did nothing
but surgery for the balance of his life. But Smitty says
that the other doctors knew he was a drunk, so the
referrals were scarce and his practice small. (Despite
the financial problems, they were able to keep the house
during the Great Depression because the Federal
Government placed a moratorium on foreclosures.)
When
he was introduced to the Oxford Group he tried hard for
three years to follow their program, and did a lot of
study, both of spirituality and of alcoholism. But it
wasn't until Bill Wilson arrived in the spring of 1935
that Dr. Bob found the kind of help he needed - one
alcoholic talking to another.
Smitty
describes Bill Wilson as being the opposite of his dad
and both of them were needed for the success of A.A. He
once joked: "If it had been up to my dad, A.A. would
never have spread beyond Akron. Had it been up to Bill,
they would have sold franchises." On another occasion he
said: "Bill was garrulous, Bill was a promoter, Bill was
a visionary. I think Bill W. could see further in the
world than anyone I've ever known. My dad wasn't that
way." (Dr. Bob was quiet, cautious, conservative,
steady, insistent on keeping things simple.)
Anne
S. died on June 2, 1949. Bill noted that she was "quite
literally, the mother of our first group, Akron Number
One. In the full sense of the word, she was one of the
founders of Alcoholics Anonymous."
Serenely remarking to his attendant, "I think this is
it," Dr. Bob died on November 16, 1950. The funeral
service was held at the old Episcopal Church by Dr.
Walter Tunks, whose answer to a telephone call fifteen
years earlier had led to the meeting between Dr. Bob and
Bill W. He was buried at Mt. Peace Cemetery, next to
Anne.
There
is no large monument on his grave. Doctor Bob, who
always admonished A.A. to "keep it simple," when he
heard that friends were planning a monument, remarked
"Annie and I plan to be buried just like other folks."
Alcoholics Anonymous itself is Dr. Bob's monument.
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